A fellow wordpresser relates that she typed in “fear and writing” and that a lot of stuff came up.
She didn’t explain what came up,, or what prompted her to google “fear and writing,” but she did say this:
A friend and I laugh about how it’s gotten that not only do you have to write a book, you’re expected to edit it, market it, and then pulp it too. You certainly have to know exactly what shelf it’s supposed to be on.
The stress and frustration comes when the mind refuses to participate.
The fear, of course, is that we will not be able to pull off all of these different tasks, which used to be shared between various people. And that fear taps back into the anxiety that most of us picked up when we were children, when, no matter what we did to please our parents, we were still not good enough.
Now, it appears that the writer of this blog and her friends are non-academic writers, but the anxiety she describes about presenting her work as a commodity in the marketplace before it has even become a thing, a work of art, a symbolic expression, a statement to the world, affects scholars as well. She writes,
The marketing buzz has gotten out of hand. We are trying to market before we’ve even created. And there are writing books that actually say don’t type a word until you know your audience. Don’t let a thought fill your head until you know who you’re going to sell it to.
Although we academics and the upper-echelon university administrators for whom we work like to pretend that we transcend these petty concerns of profit and interest, although we claim to be engaged in the pursuit of truth and knowledge, the realities of the market affect us, too. Whole books are stifled because presses are increasingly under pressure to publish only what they think they can sell. And who wants to read an academic book other than other academics?
A friend–I say “friend” although the trust on which a friendship is built has yet to be established–let us say, the husband of a friend of mine, a man who is the child of academics and who spent long years working in academia, recently said to me, when I told him that I was still plugging away on my book,
Why? What is the point of writing something that no one, or maybe five people will read? What are you writing it for now that you know you’re not going to get tenure at X?
He was not exactly encouraging. I, however, was prepared for him and answered that I believed that I had a contribution to make, an original argument that deserved to be published, and that it meant something to me to express it. Then he asked me if I had anyone reading it, an editor or fellow-writer to bounce ideas off of. When I said that I had sought such a helper in vain, he responded,
In my experience people who don’t have a reader cannot finish their books. You simply can’t do it.
Okay, so this really irritated me in that way that a microscopic piece of glass under the skin of your index finger irritates you. And it deflated me to a certain extent because I have heard this same refrain in my mind for years and years. And yes, to a certain extent, the echo still reverberates. This person seemed to be encouraging me to give up and admit that I had failed and would never finish the work that I had been working on for so many years, the book that I had originally envisioned completing in two or three years. But for some reason I didn’t hear him saying this.
When people say things like this to me, what I hear is that they would like to write and are afraid to do it. If they can convince me to give up my project, that will justify their decision to give up theirs. This sort of statement only comes from someone who has bought into the whole, ridiculous belief-system that a person is only real once he or she has published a book, or made a fortune, or conquered a country, and so on. What they–we–are all afraid of is of being scorned, or ignored, or somehow evaluated as inadequate. And this fear probably comes to us not only from our childhood, from our parents, who projected onto us their feelings of failure and unworthiness, which they experienced in their own relationships with their parents and their cultures.
This is an old, old fear, passed down from generation to generation. But it is also a new fear, one that we encounter when we enter into the market as writers and believe that what we are selling is somehow a part of ourselves.
I do not know how to write without understanding my writing as a part of myself. I know that lots of people do grasp this. Popular authors invent or copy a formula and reproduce it in a fashion that is sure to sell. I also do not know how to write without feeling the pressure to sell what I am in the process of writing, of expressing. It’s not possible to be a writer who expects or needs to get published without being subject to market pressures. And this is as true for scholars as it is for popular writers, for novelists and poets and self-help manual-writers. It is not possible to create art, to be an artist, without being conscious of, or in some fashion under, the force, the influence, of commercialism. We live in a commercialized world.
Hell, we are all forced to become capitalists. Or we are if we are wise. In this economy, saving money in a savings account or CD simply pays so little that, after the effect of inflation, the value of our money actually DECLINES. We think about what is happening to our wealth as a sum, a number, in nearly every decision we make–when we decide to rent instead of to buy, when we decide to buy goods of any kind–milk, paper, educations, lawnmowers, sheep, art, companions– at exorbitant prices or at the bottom of the market. And in our particular economy (as opposed to say, earlier forms of society, when economic values were largely held in land and people and animals, as opposed to in money and stocks), it doesn’t pay to save money without figuring out some way to make that money grow. People don’t keep gold coins in chests anymore. People didn’t used to believe that money could make money. They also didn’t used to approve of lending money for interest, or of deliberately paying a person to produce a commodity a fraction of what you know you’ll get when you sell that commodity in the market.
So, we think of our selves as body/minds for sale–newscasters and politicians nearly always have to be physically appealing to succed. And how many obese, female CEOs do you know? We sell ourselves, our skin color, our education, our reading list, the newspapers we subscribe to, the cars we drive, the labels we wear, the dogs we care for, the accomplishments of our children, even our most intimate companions, our lovers, our wives, our husbands, these things become attributes, aspects of our abstract portfolio, our virtual net worth. We are not evil or bad or selfish, inherently, for thinking this way. It’s our culture. It’s all we’ve ever known.
So of course writing–and all art–is subject to market pressures, the need to know who your audience is, and how to market it, and where to try to sell it. And yes, the people who are best at promoting themselves as commodities are in fact the people who make the most money. They’re not necessarily the best at what they do.
Okay, so in very few instances, they are. Mozart was good at selling himself, and he was great.
You could say that even the idea that we are writing for reasons other than material need is cultivated and promoted in the market as a way of trumping up the value of what we produce. This “true expression of the spirit” is what we covet, what we as buyers want to purchase. We put it on our bookshelves and on our walls when we are rich.
And yet there is somehow the drive, the insane push to formulate some kind of analysis or narrative of something or other, purely for sake of expressing it. This is the same impulse that we are all under to “be creative,” to find some means of representing our “inner selves.” This, of course, cynically viewed, is just another way of buying into the idea that there is an inner self that could be expressed.
Still, there is something more than this, too, a need to contribute, to get into the conversation, with other people who also care about the past and who want their scholarship or their novel or their craft or skill to explain things in a way that will make a difference.
In the past, people like Milton believed that this wish to generate art, or to have a job best suited to his or her capabilities, was the yearning of God to show himself (Milton believed that God was male) in the world, to communicate with his creatures. This was a radical idea, believe it or not, compared to the older belief that people worked in the fields and the stations to which they were born; they didn’t even have a concept of individual desire, inclination, or talent for one thing or another. We are all subject to this longing–not just the writers among us, but also those of us who work in business. In corporate culture more than anywhere, in fact, the pressure to be “creative” is felt.
I am still thinking that this may be a universal longing in the human spirit, even though I don’t actually believe in transhistorical longings on the grounds that our desires are constructed and sustained in historically specific environments.
Tara Brach writes and speaks about an ancient Tibetan wisdom which teaches that the divine abides in everyone. She tells a classic tale about a monastery that has fallen on hard times. There are only four monks left, and they are all old. The community is not thriving, and they have no ideas for how to continue. One day the abbot goes to visit a rabbi. He tells him that he is extremely worried about the future of the monastery, and asks if the rabbi has any suggestions for how to plump up their membership and coffers. ”No, I can’t think of any way for you to plump up your membership and coffers,” the rabbi says, “but I can tell you one thing. I can tell you that one among you is the Messiah.”
The abbot is astonished to hear this and relates the news to his brethren. Once they learn that one of them is the Messiah, the monks begin to treat one another with an extraordinary courtesy. And an extraordinary change comes over the monastery, a light of kindness seems to glow in the faces of the monks, and bye and bye word gets out and new monks come to share in the extraordinary community. Soon so many new members have come, the monastery swells and thrives. All because each of them believed that one among them was the Messiah.
So Tara Brach interprets this tale according to the Tibetan wisdom that the divine inhabits each one of us, and that the god or goal we seek is already here, within us, and that our true nature is love. This is not so different from the advice of my fellow blogger, Nina Killham, encourages us all to ignore the market and write out of love. Love is the main ingredient, she says, of what we ought to be writing.
That’s nice. But in fact we can’t ignore the market. Nevertheless we could try to write out of love, not fear. Fear comes to us, seeps into us, through the market, which transforms each of us into small children needing to be accepted and valued by “parents”–our audiences, our publishers, our critics, our rejectors, our deniers–who don’t give a shit about us, who have not entered into anything like a dignified and loving relationship with us, and who never will.
What I suggest is what Tara Brach would suggest. Let us all put our hands upon our hearts and acknowledge with compassion the need to be loved, our longing to be accepted and valued–hell, not just valued, but SEEN, recognized, acknowledged–in this particular time-frame of human culture, and accept that this is. Let us also see that we are seeing this. Let us step above ourselves for a moment, and understand with love why it is that we need this, why it is that we fear writing, because of what it has come to mean for so many of us. Let us find some way to write in spite of this anxiety, from which we cannot every fully come free. Let us understand ourselves as writers with love, not fear, and try somehow to get across what it is that we need to get across, in order to have an intelligent conversation with someone, and to get a better sense of what it is that we are trying to understand.