About This Blog

Welcome to this blog! I’ve named it “The Left Hand of Feminism” as a way to honor one of my favorite authors, Ursula K. Le Guin.   Le Guin’s pathbreaking novel, The Left Hand of Darkness, recounts the experiences of a heterosexual, male visitor to a planet, Gethen, where people are not locked into rigid gendered selves.   Each Gethenian has the potential to become either male or female during a cyclical, estrus-like period of “kemmer.”  At all other times the Gethenians live without sexual identities or urges.   The visitor’s inability to step outside of his own way of seeing people as men or women first, and human second, causes him to make mistakes that nearly kill him.   Towards the end of the book, he sees the truth:

And I saw then again, and for good, what I had always been afraid to see, and had pretended not to see in him: that he was a woman as well as a man.  Any need to explain the sources of that fear vanished with the fear; what I was left with was, at last acceptance of him as he was.

In addition to being a powerful anti-war novel, the work is also a great love story.  As Le Guin portrays it, love arises not from the affinities and likenesses, but rather from the differences, between people.

Feminism for me is profoundly a movement about love between human beings, love that arises from acceptance and reverence for the differences that make each one of us unique.  Feminism asks us to transcend the cultural conditioning that locks us into narrow concepts of femininity and masculinity.

Another passage in The Left Hand of Darkness inspires this blog.  The visitor to Gethen, who has come to invite this world into a larger federation of planets, the Ekumen.   According to custom, he has come alone.  What he has to say to the Gethenians about his mission applies to my own here, in this blog:

I thought it was for your sake that I came alone, so obviously alone, so vulnerable, that I could in myself pose no threat, change no balance: not an invasion, but a mere messenger-boy.  But there’s more to it than that.  Alone, I cannot change your world.  But I can be changed by it.  Alone, I must listen, as well as speak.  Alone, the relationship I finally make, if I make one, is not impersonal and not only political: it is individual; it is personal, it is both more and less than political.  Not We and They; not I and It; but I and Thou.

I cannot change your world alone but I can  be changed by it.  I can enter into a relationship with you, the reader of these words now, and listen to you.  I do not therefore seek an impersonal or only political relationship with you, but rather a personal one.  Le Guin says that this kind of relationship is not pragmatic but mystical, and that beginnings and means are far more important than the end.  Let us then proceed, as she says,

by subtle ways, and slow ones, and queer, risky ones

to evolve together.

13 thoughts on “About This Blog

  1. Hi, Kimberly!!
    So glad you are enjoying your time in Colorado (and California), you look relaxed and happy.

    I loved reading your blog; thanks especially for referencing one of my favorite authors, and one of my favorite books. My most and best favorite of Ursula’s is “Always Coming Home”. The language, Kesh, transports me–something I believe a religious text should do.

    I will be thinking about you, and your loss of your mother, today.

    Peace, as always, and hugs!

    Beth

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  2. I’m not certain if I’m doing this right since I’m new to WordPress (also I hope I’m not being too weird), but I wanted to say a huge “Thank you!” for your comment on my blog!

    It was actually a huge honor to me that you read it–I’ve been following your blog since my professor sent us the link to your “Happy Oestre” post (which I’ve read and re-read countless times!). I’m a recent grad from the University of Southern Maine (Sociology with a Women & Gender Studies minor) and it’s blogs like yours that gave me the inspiration to start writing my own–even if what I’m writing is a little more creatively-focused than empowering/impressively researched. Your blog also has been a great connection to gender issues outside of the ivory walls I no longer am within.

    Thanks for everything. Please keep up the great work!

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  3. Hi Kimberly,

    My favorite quote from your writings “feminism = love. With this message I invite you to remember the knowledge that we have always had but have forgotten, that women and men begin in a relationship of equality, not hierarchy, with one another.”

    Women and men need to be in a relationship of equality and love. That’s all that matters.

    Ryan

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  4. Hello!

    You may not remember me. I took a critical reading class that you taught in the fall of 2009. It seems absurd to me that that was so long ago, you probably don’t recall me; I was a lazy student, but an enthusiastic one. My time at Pitt was not long and I dropped out in February 2010.

    Your class was the only positive, lucky experience that I had while at Pitt. The fact is this: you lifted a veil from my eyes. I sold all my other texts from that time, but I still have Masculine Domination and the Oresteia. These books, and the class as a whole, taught me what I already suspected: that the version of the world I knew, ostensibly equal for women and men, innocent of a patriarchy, were lies. Most importantly, when we discussed the fall of man, you asked the question: Why was Eve at fault?

    The point is that I never saw the world in the same way, that I had a new uneasiness that I still regret more women have not come to understand. After I dropped out, I went back to school to study literature. By one way or another I decided I would become an English professor.

    Now in the first year of a Master’s program, I’m studying feminist theory in a lit theory class. I’ve had this sort of material before in other undergrad classes, and the awakening of feminist thought in myself is quite old, but alive and well. Reading Gilbert and Gubar, Cixious, amongst various other feminist authors again, I couldn’t help but think of the first person to teach me this other, better way of being in the world.

    To that I say: Thank you Thank you THANK YOU!

    Christine

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    1. Christine, of course I remember you! You were engaged and articulate. I’ very happy to hear that you are continuing with your feminist education. It warms my heart to hear from you. I thank you! Education is a give-and-take, a relationship between teacher and student, and students help us teacher to thrive. So thank YOU!

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  5. Thank you, Kimberly, for your writing of “The Tragedy of Lynn and Martha (Kennedy) Latta”. You see, I am the daughter of Jean Manahl Laut, eldest child of Ruth Latta and Herbert Manahl. I’ve heard tiny bits of the story over the years, but never this much detail. I particularly enjoyed the memories and photos of my great-aunts and uncles. The Latta family reunions were always much fun. I just wanted you to know your efforts are much appreciated.

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    1. Thank you, Kimberly, for your writing of “The Tragedy of Lynn and Martha (Kennedy) Latta”. You see, I am the daughter of Jean Manahl Laut, eldest child of Ruth Latta and Herbert Manahl. I’ve heard tiny bits of the story over the years, but never this much detail. I particularly enjoyed the memories and photos of my great-aunts and uncles. The Latta family reunions were always much fun. I just wanted you to know your efforts are much appreciated.

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  6. Hi Kimberly, it’s taken me a while to realise you’ve been to my blog but now that I’ve sought you out, it’s just great to discover the blog of a feminist sailor, to learn about The Left Hand of Darkness (now on my books to read list) and to see from your categories that the topics are all ones of interest to me. Thanks for your blog.

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